(Not) getting laid
I was reading a book tonight and one of the characters mentioned meeting a guy at a hotel to "get laid properly." *Sigh* How I miss getting laid. But I've promised myself to wait until I'm in a committed relationship.
Wait, deja vu. I just realized I've already written about this. But this time, it's because I'm really starting to develop strong feelings for Etch. He really is a great guy. Saturday night he came over to hang out. As soon as he came in the door, he started practically begging me to let him put my bookshelf together. It was so nice. He wanted to put the dresser together too, but I wouldn't let him. That's not at all what I invited him over for. Anyway, we watched a movie and there was some smooching afterwards, but he totally didn't try any 'funny business.' I don't know his reasoning, but that means a lot.
It was V's idea, and I've agreed, to wait until I've known him 6 months before I "go all the way" with him. It works out nicely because that will coincide with my birthday. That's not to say it's not on my mind frequently. There are just too many variables right now, and I don't want to regret it when I finally do it. I have to be sure that's it the (almost) right thing to do.
3 comments:
Well, I think you have a good mindset and yes, six months sounds about right.
I think waiting is a GREAT idea, too many people jump into bed at a whim these days................waiting till you are sure to a level or even until you know each other better......the buildup will make it more intense!!!!
Six months? Read my Dude posting (today) about your situation... Six months is going to turn Etch into a Wretch.
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